Addendum For Those Not So Easily Moved

Spots has her very own boarding pass.

Sigh, oh sigh.

Things That Melt Your Heart

Grammers and Gramps took Wrig to Build-a-Bear today. She selected a cheetah (or maybe it's a leopard. If you know the difference, feel free to straighten me out). Without realizing it, Wrig managed to select a) the mot expensive "carcass" and b) the carcass that came with a $1 donation to the World Wildlife Fund.

That, however, is not what might melt your heart.

Wrig pretty much fell instantly madly in love with Spots. When we stopped at LensCrafters, Wrig plopped herself down on the floor and cradled Spots in her lap. I thought she was going to hike up her dress and nurse the beast. Spots gave Wrig a bear hug - actually, a leopard hug - for the rest of the afternoon.

That, however, is not what might melt your heart.

And then - warning: potential heart melting event ahead - as we got into the car after our trip, Wrig sat Spots into a seat and strapped her into a seatbelt. Yes, she secured her brand new stuffed animal with a seat belt. My, oh my.

Bonus heart melting event: While I am typing, Wrig is sitting on the kitchen counter, dressing Spots in her purple prom dress and ruby red shoes. She is narrating to herself, as she often does. The only two phrases that I've clearly understood are "Ugh, I think I've put this all on backwards!" and "... especially when she's a poor orphan." Oh, sigh.

Hold Your Breath

A post in praise of dangerous women:

Yesterday, after Wrig had exhausted me in the pool, she found a friend named Lena, from Chicago. Lena was a little bit older than Wrig, a little bit taller, and - though not much - a little bit better at swimming. Lena and Wrig grabbed a noodle each and began paddling about the pool. Lena was very excited to be over four! feet! tall! and able to stand on her tiptoes way! out! here! She kept luring Wrig further and further into the pool, into deeper and deeper water.

I relaxed on a lawn chair, holding my breath.

It takes an enormous amount of concentration to watch your daughter and her brand-new-novice-swimmer friend fend for themselves in four and five foot water. Every ounce of energy I had was spent cementing my kiester to the chair. Every other ounce of energy was spent suppressing the urge to shout "Wrigley, get back here!" or "Wrigley, be careful!"

You know what? Wrigley knows to be careful without me shouting at her. I watched her balance herself this way and that, trying new tricks and reacting to the flow of energy and water. Whenever she felt unsure, she paddled back to safer ground, readjusted herself, and tackled the deep end again.

My kid has good sense. It's terrifying - um, I mean fun - watching her use it.

We're Not in Kansas Anymore, Toto

I'm struggling with a difficulty I don't often encounter while blogging in Oregon: sun glare. I can pretty much take my laptop anywhere in the city of Portland and not have any problems reading my computer screen.

As it happens, I am sitting on my parents back deck, in the shade of a mesquite (I think), being serenaded by unfamiliar birds. There are quail here, and mourning doves, and three other calls that belong to much shier birds: one of them honks, one whistles, one sings opera. I hope they'll introduce themselves before Wrig and I head home.

It's been an eventful morning already. Wrig saw a bunny across the street and a quail righto ut the window. Right after breakfast, we made a beeline for the swimming pool. Wrig splashed and frolicked and made friends. Wrig very generously offered to share her rockets with a three or four year old boy. It always surprises me that it surprises my parents when Wrig is generous. Our society expects the worst from children, and why not? Have you seen tv? Poor behavior is all we model for them. It's a shame we're not sending Wrig to school to pick up some "social skills."

Oops. Accidental mini-rant. Sorry 'bout that.

I was able to swim today (a whopping 20 laps) for the first time in 10 months (thanks Kaiser PT!). I'm curious to see how my knee reacts. I hope it doesn't get cranky.

Despite the accidental rant, I'm feeling very mellow and content right now (if not a wee bit lonely). The temperature is in the low 80s, the breeze is tickling my leg hair, and I could very happily be an Arizonan.

For about five days.

Poem of the Week

This has been the longest week in the history of longest weeks. EVERY DAY this week I have said to myself, "At least tomorrow is Friday ..." I was wrong about that for a very long time.

About 15 years ago, on Monday, Christie received a letter from the OSPA informing her that one of her students scored an honorable mention in their student contest. The next day I received a letter at work informing me that one my students also took an honorable mention. I've been nagging my kids for going on ten years to enter that stupid contest and, lo and behold, one of them finally did. I honestly can't say whether I'm more proud of Wrig or of my student. (When I told that to my student, he said, "Better stick with the family, Mr. Kline. Better stick with the family." Smart kid.)

So this poem was written last Sunday, during and shortly after Wrig's magnificent performance. It is not - directly, anyway - about Christie, though you might like to think it is. Perhaps one of our lurkers might recognize herself. Perhaps not.

Anyway, I'm kind of tired of posting poems about parenting but, honestly, it's all I've got. If you're dying for a poem about nature or springtime or something, let me know.

The Look
March 16, 2008

After ninety minutes of watching other people’s children
mumble and stutter, stumble and mutter, her daughter
finally takes the stage. And as the set pieces
shuffle and rumble, the look creeps across her face:

Features sharpen, eyes narrow, lips purse –
a look painted partly with fear, mostly with hope.
She leans forward in her wobbly chair, ready to leap
to the rescue should her daughter fall, should she fail.

She is not alone in this crowded audience. No one
says it out loud, but we cling to the belief that if we
love our children enough, if we watch them as intently
as we intend, our looks alone should shield them from harm.

So we all wear this look to protect ourselves when
our children attempt their most dangerous feats
of derring-do: barreling breathlessly down the block
on two wheels, leaping into clear, cold water,

or, worst of all, falling in love.

Ed is always forgetting stuff

Ed forgot to tell you that Wrigley (and her teacher, yours truly) was also invited to an awards ceremony where she would have the opportunity to read her poem to the audience. Oh, and the awards ceremony would end with dessert. This detail amuses me because it is a detail that was mentioned only in Wrigley's letter and not in mine. We can't go to the ceremony, as it is scheduled the same weekend as our annual Mother's Day cabin camping trip, but if I were six and I had that to look forward to, the dessert part would stick in my head.

If we were able to go, we wouldn't have had to worry about the public poetry "reading" performance. Wrigley had her debut in that arena this past weekend. Her drama class had its semester performance on Sunday. Last Thursday, Wrigley was taken with Daffodowndilly, a spring celebration poem by AA Milne. She decided she would ask Samantha, her drama teacher, if she could perform it. She did just that, and Samantha agreed that Wrigley could open the performance by reciting the poem and making the announcement about turning off your cell phone.

Gack, just before time, I was all atwitter.


You see, the drama class performance is really all about cute small kids bounding about the stage with the drama teacher right there on stage as part of the play acting as narrator and line prompter to keep the storyline rolling along.


There can be no mistakes because no matter how badly they forget, move to the wrong place, get silly, distracted, speak softly or even pee (poor girl) on stage, Samantha is right there keeping it going and in the audience are all parents who are all also parents of 5-10 year olds who are also doing the same things.

So here it is time for Wrig's big solo debut and I've got butterflies. If Wrigley did too, I couldn't tell. She spoke clearly and projected. She didn't forget a thing, though, afterward she mentioned that she got one of the words wrong. I also now know the poem by heart, and I didn't notice.


It was quite an event. Then the next day, she finds out about the Oregon State Poetry Society award. She's feeling pretty good about her talents right now.

Uh-Oh! Somebody's Got Competition

To quote a letter we recently received (by which I mean we received four hours ago) from the Oregon State Poetry Association: "Dear Wrigley, It is our great pleasure to inform you that your poem, I Need, has won an Honorable Mention in Category I of the 2008 Oregon State Youth Poetry Contest."

That's right - my child, champion poet. She wins a certificate, a medal, and $5 (that's two and a half packs of gum!).

To quote the Wrigley: "Pretty cool, huh?" Later, she qualified her comment: "I think it's pretty cool winning the poetry contest. I've never won a contest before."

Without further ado, here's a BONUS poem of the week:

I Need
by Wrigley Kline
January 31, 2008

I need some wool to spin into string
I need some knitting needles to knit the hat for the queen
I need some sheep for wool
I need some farmers to shear the sheep
I need some money to pay the farmers for shearing my sheep
I need a spinning wheel to spin the yarn to knit the hat for the queen

Poem of the Week

In an effort to draw more people to the site (Hi Romy!), I've given my poem a title bound to turn up in a web search or two ...

Dirty Words
March 12, 2008

I am on my knees in my garden,
madly in love with dirt: dirt dark
as dreams, dirt damp with dew,
deep, deep dirt drawing me into mud.
This good dirt, this dirt of my garden,
will make food grow. From this dirt
comes carrots and garlic and kale,
swiss chard and snap peas and spearmint.
This good dirt, this dirt of my garden,
covers my hands and knees and gets
between my toes. This good dirt breathes.

I want to wallow in words this way,
warm them, water them, watch
them grow wild and willful.
I want to feed you with poetry,
off rhymes ripe from the vine,
sell synonyms sweet as cinnamon
from a fruit stand on a farm road,
a farm road beside a fallow field
full of good dirt, deep, deep dirt,
where you will find me on my knees
in my garden, madly in love with words.